Stay in Your Lane, Babe: Why Comparing Yourself Online Is a Total Waste of Your Magic YOU ARE THAT
Alright, let’s chat. Social media? Absolute circus. And guess what? You and me? We’re front-row spectators, clutching our popcorn and comparing ourselves to influencers with private jets and flawless skin. WHY, though? When did we forget how to stay in our bloody lanes?
Here’s the thing: your lane? It’s gorgeous. It’s got character, charm, and vibes for days. And best of all? There’s no traffic. It’s all yours. But here we are, swerving all over the place, caught up in someone else’s highlight reel. So, let’s hit the brakes and unpack this madness.
Spoiler Alert: Instagram Isn’t Real Life
Neither is TikTok. Honestly, even your own posts aren’t the full story. Don’t act like you’ve never shoved a mountain of washing out of the frame to snap that “candid” shot. Everyone’s busy curating their best bits, so no one’s clocking if your lane is under construction or stuck in neutral.
AND THAT’S A GOOD THING.
Because your lane? It’s where the magic happens. Not Julie’s. Not Emma’s. Not that random influencer who’s somehow always on holiday. Yours. It’s time to reclaim it like the absolute legde you are.
A Little Sanskrit
Here’s where it gets deep: there’s a mantra, Soham*(सोऽहम्). It means, “I am that.” Translation? “I am exactly enough as I am.” Not, “I’ll be enough when I hit 10k followers,” or “I’ll feel worthy when I can post my handstands on TikTok.” Nope. RIGHT. NOW.
You, with your sweats, your messy hair, and your beautifully chaotic life, are already that person. The whole vibe. The full mood. Own it.
How to Stay in Your Lane Like a Boss
So, the next time you catch yourself spiraling over someone’s #blessed post, pause. Breathe. Chant *Soham* if you’re feeling fancy. And remember:
- Your lane is VIP territory. Decorate it. Throw some glitter on it. Make it yours.
- Comparison is the thief of joy. And let’s be real, Karen’s grass is probably astroturf anyway.
- You’re already enough. No edits, no filters, just you.
Life’s not a race, babe. It’s a vibe. And you? You’re not just in it; you’re setting it. So stop peeking over at someone else’s lane wondering why it looks shinier, the grass isn’t greener and theirs is probably fkn Astroturf mate! Stay in yours, because it’s where the real magic happens.
““Stay in your lane. Comparison kills creativity and joy.””
Now, go sprinkle some glitter on your lane and strut like the absolute star you are.
Have a listen to the song Seasons (waiting on you) by Future Islands - a reflective anthem about personal growth and staying in your own lane!
